Bridge
A private intermediary for the two of you. What you say here stays here. Only the notes you write, read and approve reach the other side.
Set up your space
Choose a passphrase. It encrypts everything you write. It cannot be recovered, so pick something you will remember.
Private to you. The mediator keeps a short memory note about you, which you can read under Settings.
The bridge
Notes either of you wrote, read, and approved. Nothing else crosses.
Read it as your partner will. Edit anything. It is yours.
Weekly check-in
Two questions, answered privately. We compare after four weeks.
How Bridge works
- Each of you has a private channel. The mediator keeps them separate. Nothing you say is relayed, quoted, or hinted at to the other person.
- Only approved notes cross. When you want something to reach your partner, you write a bridge note, with the mediator's help if you like, read it, and approve it. Then, and only then, it appears on the bridge.
- The mediator carries no instructions. It helps each of you see your own patterns and needs. It does not tell either of you how to change the other, and it takes no side.
- It is not therapy. It draws on well-studied approaches to how couples communicate, and it says so when asked. It does not diagnose anyone.
- Safety is never a secret. If something suggests danger, harm, or crisis, the mediator stops and points to people who can help. It will not keep that confidential.
- Your words are encrypted with your passphrase. They are readable only while you are signed in. Delete everything, any time, under Settings. It cannot be undone.
- Both of you read the same rules. There is no hidden version.
Settings
The mediator's note about you
(nothing yet)
Delete everything
Removes your conversations, your note, your bridge notes and your account. Your partner's space is untouched. This cannot be undone.